Waipahu Dating Over 50
If you’re a man who is over 50 and attempting to date women, you might not realize the distinct advantages that you possess over younger guys.
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A man of your age has had a lot of life experience and you really should be using that to feel confident in what you’ve got to offer women. Unlike a younger man who is still trying to work out who he is and what he should be doing with his life, you’ve likely past those stages and have become your true self as a man.
So, from here, you need to have confidence in the overall value that a woman will gain (emotionally, mentally, financially, etc) by being with man like you. However, don’t try to pitch it that way to women.
Women don’t like it when a man tries to sell himself to her by listing off all of his great or beneficial qualities. Instead, what you need to do is trigger her feelings of sexual attraction for you.
When you’ve triggered a woman’s feelings of sexual attraction, she then starts to look at everything else about you in a more positive light. Here’s how it works…
As you will discover from the video above, it’s possible for you to attract women who are a lot younger than you.
Most women (not all) are open to feeling attracted to different types of guys and if you can make a woman feel what she’s hoping to feel with a guy, she will be much more open to dating and getting into a relationship with a man of your age.
Getting Past Your Age
I think it’s fair to say that most people still consider dating to be something that “young” people do.
Despite the changes in our society, there still seems to be an unwritten law that once you’re passed a certain age you’re too “old” for dating. Yet, if you’ve reached that certain age and you’re a single man looking for love, the fact is that you’re going to find it in the same way that guys in their 20s and 30s do – and that’s dating.
Dating after 50 is no different to dating at any other age, because the principles of it remain the same.
After all, the whole idea of dating is to get to know the woman you’re attracted to and to figure out whether she is someone that you’re interested in being in a relationship with. However, with that said, the most common mistake that guys over 50 make when trying to woo a woman, is that they forget the all important element of sexual attraction.
Getting Back in to the Dating Scene
It’s understandable that many men in their 50s, who find themselves returning to the dating scene after decades of being in a relationship, start off feeling a bit insecure and unsure of themselves. If this is you, I can help you.
Insecurity and lack of confidence in your attractiveness and value to women at any age is a barrier to success with women, but the good news is that any man can overcome that at any stage in their life and irrespective of age. All a guy needs is a willingness to learn.
“But, I Don’t Have My Youthful Looks…”
Something a lot of guys in their 50s say to me is, “Dan, how am I supposed to attract a new woman into my life now that I’ve no longer got my youthful appearance? Surely, most women aren’t going to be interested in an old fella like me.”
What such men don’t realise is that I also get comments from guys half their age saying, “How am I going to attract a woman without movie star good looks?
Isn’t it all about being tall, dark and handsome?” I answer everyone in the same way – a man’s looks have very little to do with how attractive he is.
The notion that “attractiveness” is the way you look, the way you style your hair, the clothes you wear or even the car you drive is nonsense, but it’s the nonsense that is shoved in our faces day in and day out through TV, magazine and billboard advertising campaigns.
They want you to think that way because it makes you buy their cars, deodorants, colognes and expensive clothing.
You know the sort of thing I mean – wear a certain brand of deodorant and you’ll be irresistible to women, wear a certain brand of watch and you’ll become a distinguished gentleman in a woman’s eyes, wear a certain designer label and you’ll have soccer star status, etc.
Yet, when you go and buy those things, women still aren’t going to be interested unless you have the confidence and belief in yourself as a man to back it up.
A watch isn’t going to get you laid and a hairstyle isn’t going to make women say, “Wow, now THAT is what I’ve been looking for! The way you’ve styled your hair is perfect! Let’s have sex!”
In the real world (not the TV commercial world), women are attracted to confident men; they don’t buy into the false world of advertising “attractiveness,” so why should you? The sooner you let go of the idea that your not-so-good-looks are holding you back, the sooner you can get on with discovering what women really find attractive in a man.
Focussing on what you don’t have gets you nowhere, but focussing on what you do have gets you moving towards having whatever you want. Women love a man who believes in himself because he decides to believe in himself for deeper reasons.
Having temporary confidence over a new shirt you’ve just bought at a designer shop isn’t going to last very long at all. In fact, if you’re going around basing your confidence on superficial things like that, women will see right through it.
Some will even challenge you on the spot by playing hard to get, making it difficult for you to keep the conversation going and so on, so they can check to see how confident you really are. When they see that it’s just a front, boom – it’s over.
You Deserve to Be Confident After 50
At this point in your life, you’ve no doubt experienced a lot and have done many good or even great things in your life.
You’re also probably not to bad in the bedroom either.
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Those and countless other things should be your reason for feeling confident.
Allow yourself to have that confidence, because when you do, women will love you for it. Dating after 50 is easy for guys who believe in themselves and know that their experience with manhood and their ability to “be the man” is like a drug to women of all ages.
If you don’t have a lot of confidence or are lacking in the masculinity department (mental and emotional masculinity), let me help you out. I’ve heard back from 100s of men over 50 who are now sleeping with women in their 20s and 30s, as well as men who’ve found a beautiful new women to share the rest of their life with.
Don’t Believe the Lies from TV Advertising Campaigns
There’s nothing that advertising campaigns like to do more than appeal to a man’s insecurities surrounding his age.
Think about it; they show the “sad” grey-haired man and then the “happy” man with newly dyed youthful-looking hair. He dyes his hair and then he gets the girl. Yet, in the real world, the many women I’ve spoken to about men dying their hair have said the same sorts of things, “It looks silly. You can tell that the guy is insecure and is trying to be something he’s not.”
As I’ve already said in this article, all women love men who believe in themselves for deeper reasons. Being a girl and dying to hair to “look young” is not cool and it’s not attractive. If anything, it actually makes you look like a guy who secretly isn’t into girls, if you catch my drift.
Hopefully you’re one of the smarter men who isn’t being tricked into thinking that women want you to look radiant and youthful. Hopefully you realize that men actually become more attractive to women as they age, as long as (and I repeat, as long as) the guy retains and builds on his confidence, continues to push forward in life and beyond what he has already achieved.
If you’re wanting to get a date after 50, but you’re lacking confidence and going nowhere in life, don’t expect women of any age to be lining up to be with you.
Most women, whether they’re 25 or 55, are instinctively attracted to the same characteristics in a man. What women really want is to be with a man who knows how to make them feel like a woman and who is able to consistently “be the man” around her and in life, and that’s it.
Yes, some women are picky about looks, but many women are more flexible with what they will find attractive in a guy than most men realize.
So get over that imaginary hurdle and stop thinking that a wrinkle cream or hair die will get you a hot lady. Stop thinking that all you need to do is spend all of your money on a sports car and THEN you’ll get the girl. Just believe in yourself, be a man and make women feel like women.
As you will discover from the video above, the real reason why a lot of good men fail with women is that they simply don’t know how to attract women.
When you interact with a woman, she is only going to look at you as a potential lover, boyfriend or husband if you can make her feel sexually attracted to you.
The more sexual attraction you are able to make women feel by way of your personality, confidence, vibe, body language, behavior and attitude, the more options you will have with women. It’s as simple as that.
“But, I’ve Got Baggage…”
Of course you do; you’re 50!
It’s no surprise that a man in his 50s might be carrying a little more “baggage” with him than a man in his 20s. It’s totally normal, expected and nothing to worry about at all.
For instance: Maybe he’s got kids, maybe he’s got six dogs, three cats and a goldfish, but is any of that an issue? It will be an issue only if he chooses to see it in a negative way.
Sure, you might have different sets of responsibilities by the time you reach your 50s compared to a guy in his 20s, but you don’t need to consider it “baggage,” it’s simply part of who you are.
There’s nothing wrong with you having a past with other women, or having a dog that you love or having your children come and stay with you on weekends. Women are attracted to men who know who they are; men who have established their own set of values in life and men who have the strength of character to stand by those values and always be true to themselves.
Knowing who you are and knowing what you want from life makes you an attractive man at any age. To get over this particular hurdle regarding dating after 50, all that you need to do is realise that most women (not all) are interested in “who” you are, not “what” you are.
“But, I’m Set in My Ways…”
If you want help and advice about dating after 50 because you’ve realized that the world has changed since you were last on the dating scene, you need to be prepared to learn from current experts in the field.
Trying to use advice that was applicable 40 years ago is only going to cause you trouble because, believe me, things really have changed. To master the modern dating scene, you need to be open to learning and that means being open to change. If you’re too set in your ways and you’re not open to change, things are going to stay exactly as they are.
Don’t make the mistake of getting locked into thoughts of, “Well I am what I am, so it’s too late to change anything now.” Success with women is all about taking steps to become the best version of yourself it’s possible to be, so you can attract a quality woman and keep that woman (if you want to!).
Don’t settle for second best or worse – nothing at all. You deserve to be happy and have a beautiful woman to share your life with, or if you prefer, many beautiful women to share your bed with.
If you’re dating after 50 and are looking for advice, then let me help you. I’ll show you the way to quickly having your choice of beautiful women…and you don’t need to change a thing about your physical appearance to make that happen.
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Dating doesn’t stop at 50, 60 or 70. Thanks to “senior” dating sites, you can toss yourself totally into the online dating scene — and meet local singles your age with ease.
But how do you start dating safely, considering the online dating sphere isn’t regulated? How do you differentiate the best 50+ dating sites from the fakes? Which sites cater to the seniors, even?
We’ve tackled these, and more, questions in this article. But first, let’s take a look at the best senior dating sites for older adults.
Top Senior Dating Sites, By Type
- Best overall, largest user base – eHarmony
- Best dating site for 60+ singles – SilverSingles
- Best site for Christian dating over 50 – Christian Mingle
- Best casual dating site for seniors – Senior Friend Finder
- Best dating site for educated professionals – Elite Singles
- Best mature dating app for Jewish seniors – JDate
- Best over 50 dating website in the UK – OurTime
- Best senior hookup site for flings – Senior Sizzle
- Best Catholic dating site for senior citizens – Catholic Match
- Hand selected matchmaking service – It’s Just Lunch
- Best 100% free dating site – OkCupid
1. eHarmony – Best Dating Site for Seniors Overall
- A large community of senior singles
- A compatibility matching system
- Meet other seniors locally
- A high success rate
- Contact other members freely
eHarmony boasts the largest community of senior singles online. Here, you can also communicate freely with other senior members in your search for a match.
And if you’re looking to meet a partner locally, eHarmony couldn’t be more helpful. They ensure your matches are near your location so you can meet up conveniently, should you choose to.
The matching process is compatible enough. Because it’s based on members’ personalities and preferences, you’re likely to bump into a compatible partner, which is a plus.
As if it’s not enough, the site features a ton of success stories: most of their senior members have found compatible matches and exchanged marriage vows, even.
2. SilverSingles – Exclusive dating site for those 50+
- Safe and easy to use
- Personality check during sign up
- Free membership is available
- Dedicated to senior singles
- Daily matches are available
If you’re seeking a place specifically set aside for seniors, SilverSingles could fit the bill. They let you access up to seven matches a day so you can do your thing.
Like with eHarmony, you can join this easy-to-navigate platform for free. You’ll have to undertake a personality survey before joining to ensure you’re matched to compatible partners only.
SilverSingle couldn’t be safer thanks to their SSL Encryption system. They also have a fraud detection system to help weed out fake profiles.
And thanks to their mobile app, you can search for potential matches on the go — you don’t have to be carrying your PC everywhere.
3. Christian Mingle – Best Site for Christian Dating Site for Seniors
- Strict verification system
- A balanced gender proportion for seniors
- Daily matches are available
- Free membership
- Users seek long-term dating
Christian singles in the house, raise your hands! Christian Mingle could help connect you to a potential life partner. The platform boasts a balanced gender ratio so there’s someone for everyone.
Most senior folks here are into serious connections, too, just in line with your Christian faith.
Christian Mingle lets you sign up for free, and they offer you daily matches. Their stern verification system ensures you don’t cross paths with bots, either.
And if you’re always on the go, don’t be afraid to sign up, too. Christian Mingle’s dating app is available on both Android and iOS devices. Download it or free and get the ball rolling.
4. Senior Friend Finder – Best Casual Dating Site for Seniors
- Members seek different kinds of relationships
- Easy-to-use interface
- Fraud detection algorithms
- Free membership with more features
- Various contact modes
It doesn’t matter if you’re looking for a serious relationship or a short-term thing, this platform might be a good fit. They cater to seniors who’re into different kinds of relationships. And their fraud detection algorithms ensure that bots don’t find a seat on the site.
Unlike with other senior dating spots, you have access to most of the core features for free at this easy-to-navigate place. Whether you want to chat with potential matches, view their photos, and more, you don’t have to spend a penny.
Plus, the fact that Senior Friend Finder offers various contact modes, including visuals, is a bonus. You only have to pick whichever one you prefer.
5. JDate – Best Dating App for Jewish Seniors
- Access singles’ events
- Free membership
- A near-equal gender distribution
- User-friendly interface
- Users seek long-term connections
One of the best spots with a dating app, JDate is the place for Jewish seniors looking for a serious relationship. And no, you don’t have to be Jewish to join. Simply head to the site and sign up.
Several users are into serious commitments, and the almost-proportional gender balance increases your chances of finding a match.
JDate organizes singles events, both online and online, which makes it easier to get acquainted with potential partners. It’s free to join the platform — and you can even browse potential matches’ profiles.
The user interface couldn’t be friendlier, considering your age!
6. Elite Singles – Best Dating Site for Professionals Over 40
- Personality assessment for new members
- Professional-level matchmaking
- Free membership is available
- Members are active
- Verified, detailed profiles
Picky seniors with a college education (who’re seeking to date seniors), come on and grab a seat at Elite Singles. The platform’s professional-level matchmaking system is a plus: matches are based on a personality test, boosting compatibility.
The members here are active, too. Consequently, you’re likely to be contacted by potential matches when you’re least expecting it.
Each one of the profiles is not only verified but also detailed so you can benchmark possible partners before contacting them. And like with most platforms on this list, membership at Elite Singles is free, unless you opt to upgrade it.
7. OurTime – Best Senior Dating Site in the UK
- Laid-back website ambiance
- Face-to-face communication
- Dedicated to seniors over 50
- A large user base
- View other members’ photos for free
Singles over 50, where are you? OurTime might be the place for you. The platform is dedicated to seniors your age and boasts a large user base — increasing your chances to find a match.
OurTime’s laid-back site ambiance is a plus, too, considering your age (you’re a senior citizen, right?).
And how about contacting possible dates face to face? OurTime boasts a video-chat feature, making for memorable communication. You can also view other user’s photos for free.
For those seniors who don’t mind browsing the website on the go, you’re covered with a mobile app, which is available for both Android and iOS devices.
8. It’s Just Lunch – Best Site for Senior Matchmaking Service
- Real-life matchmaking
- Ideal for busy senior professionals
- Complimentary phone interview
- Dates are set at convenient hours
- Members seek serious relationships
If you’re a busy single senior, you might want to look no further than It’s Just Lunch. They offer personalized matchmaking, from certified matchmakers, based on personality compatibility.
This is the only platform on our list that features a phone interview during registration. Meaning, you’re less likely to meet fakes here.
The vast majority of seniors at It’s Just Lunch seek meaningful relationships. Which is a plus considering older folks are looking to settle down. And dates are set over lunchtime mostly, just so they don’t compromise your working hours.
9. Senior Match
- Caters to folks aged 45+
- Good gender distribution
- The interface is simple to use
- Optimized for mobile browsing
- Contact other members for free
And now look at this one! A place that’s been dedicated to mature singles for the last 18 years. Yet, Senior Match isn’t confined to dating. They let you seek travel buddies aged 45+ — and other types of companionship.
To prove they truly cater to the senior dating population, Senior Match won’t approve any new accounts for people younger than 45 years.
Senior Match is one of the places with a balanced gender ratio, making it likely to find a date. And while they currently don’t have a dating app, their site is optimized for mobile browsing, with all the desktop features included.
The platform has a simple-to-use port. Sign up for and contact potential matches for free.
10. Catholic Match – Best Catholic Dating Site for Senior Citizens
- An equal gender distribution
- The senior members are active
- Complimentary membership months
- Profiles are comprehensive
- Free membership
To our Catholic seniors looking to give online dating a shot, this platform might not disappoint. The older members are active, and their equal gender ratio means there’s someone for you. Also, considering the senior folks here are into serious dating, it goes well with your Catholic faith.
Each one of the user profiles couldn’t be more comprehensive. Skim through these to get a thing or two about potential matches before contacting them.
Catholic Match lets you sign up for free, and you can browse possible partners’ profiles without spending a dime. Note, you’ll need to answer some faith-based questions on your profile.
Here’s the best part about this Jewish platform: they give you complimentary months should you fail to bump into a potential match during your first six months.
11. Match
- A large user base
- High member activity
- Six free membership months
- Detailed profiles
- Free membership
A whopping 20 years in the matchmaking game is no joke! This probably explains why Match guarantees you’re going to meet someone on the platform. If, for any reason, you don’t, Match gives you six membership months for free.
This platform has high member activity, and the user base couldn’t be larger, boosting your chances of finding a match. The profiles are detailed enough, too, so you can get a quick picture of possible partners before going all in.
At Match, senior folks are into serious dating. Membership is free, and you can filter profiles based on handy parameters, including location and age range.
You’ll also find seniors meeting people they’ve knocked into in real life thanks to the platform’s Missed Opportunity feature.
12. OkCupid – Best Free Senior Dating Site
- Personality compatibility matching system
- A large user base
- Members are active
- Comprehensive profiles
- Contact potential matches for free
It doesn’t matter if you’re a senior citizen, but you can dip your toes into a variety of relationships at OkCupid. The platform boasts a personality compatibility matching approach, helping weed out incompatible matches.
The large user base, which is also active, boosts your chances of running into possible dates. Member profiles are detailed, just so you know what you’re getting into before making the first move.
And, unlike most dating sites on our list, OkCupid lets you contact other members for free. Complimentary membership is available as well.
Senior Dating Sites: Your Questions Answered
Can Only Seniors Apply to Senior Dating Sites?
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Well, it depends on which corner of the web you’re accessing. Some online dating sites allow only seniors to join. They don’t allow younger people at all. Senior Match is a good example.
Some platforms, meanwhile, are dedicated to both the senior and younger people. Sugar daddy dating sites (where you’ll find seniors dating younger people) are a good example.
And other websites have no age restrictions at all. Here, the seniors meet people aged 18+ — no specific age range is specified.
Why Should I Use a Senior Dating Site?
Firstly, these are the best dating sites for you: they are dedicated to senior dating, and you’re likely going to bump into folks with similar interests and experiences.
It couldn’t be easier finding potential dates in your age group as well, unlike on other sites, where you need to browse a good chunk of profiles for the same.
We’ve also found out that most dating sites for seniors offer a rigorous personality survey during sign up. Which helps separate the humans from the robots.
When it comes to the user interface, a considerable number of senior platforms have a laid-back port, making for hassle-free navigation.
What Are Some Pro Tips for Using Senior Dating Sites?
Here are a few of them:
Hop onto a Reliable Site
Considering there are countless fakes out there, you want to use a trusted online dating site only. The platforms we’ve recommended above might come in handy.
Have Practical Anticipations
Of course, you’re a senior citizen, and so might be your potential partner. So, expect it t reflect in their photos — grey hair, wrinkles, and all. That way, you’re unlikely to shun a possible life partner due to physical looks.
Know When to Bring Up Your Baggage
Given your age, chances are you are divorced or have lost your spouse. Or, maybe, you’ve been into a bunch of relationships already. It’s not uncommon to have grown-up children, too.
Now, don’t bring up all this baggage during your first contact with a potential match. It could scare them away.
Are Dating Sites for Seniors Safe?
Nearly all leading senior dating sites are safe. But considering the online dating world isn’t regulated, it can provide ground for senior people meeting fakes here and there.
Here’s how to ensure you’re staying safe, even on one of the best dating sites.
- Do your research before joining a platform
- Sign up on websites that are an authority in the industry
- Never dish your financial info to a stranger, even if you’re matches
- When it comes to initial physical meetups, do it in a public spot
- Confirm that potential websites process payments safely
The Takeaway on Senior Dating Sites
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We hope that these top online dating sites make for a great opportunity to meet senior people and find love, even at your age!
Our Winner is eHarmony. Despite the site’s membership price, their satisfaction guarantee couldn’t be more reliable. Our first and second runner-ups are SilverSingles and SeniorFriendFinder, in that order. Both dating sites are dedicated to serving senior singles.
Now, don’t let the age factor be a hindrance, but go take the online dating world by storm!